The Family and
School Partnership Christian education
is a valuable commodity and to gain the
fullest possible benefit from it, students
need to come to it with a home-developed
foundation. Put another way, there are
certain intrinsic qualities of the families
whose students do well in this sort of
education. When these qualities are absent,
it is very likely that in spite of the best
efforts of the school and the teachers, the
student will stand to gain little. The
following is not intended to be an
exhaustive compilation of those
characteristics, but should serve as
examples to illustrate the point.
“Moral training”
is the big “E” on the eye chart of
prerequisite qualities. Put even more
plainly, children coming from homes where
God’s Word is honored and obeyed will see a
profound similarity in the expectations at
school regarding their behavior. Homes that
identify sin as sin, expect cheerful
obedience, and show love and forgiveness
consistently will find the school’s
standards will reinforce those biblical
principles.
But how does that
training practically look at school? What
are some precise evidences of a firm
foundation that enables a student to get the
most out of the school’s program? One very
obvious evidence is the student’s view of
authority in general, and parents’ authority
in particular. A good measure of the
students’ regard for authority is the love
boys show to their mothers, and the respect
girls show for their fathers. Listen to how
students talk; if the subject of parents
comes up at all, it takes very little
astuteness to determine the health of a
student’s view of his parents.
Another related
quality is old-fashioned etiquette or
manners. In the past, good manners were
referred to as the “oil” of maintaining good
relations with others in public. It is not a
sin, per se, for a boy not to hold the door
for a girl, but it is probably an indicator
that his training as a gentleman is not
complete. The way a child speaks to an
adult, the way he sits or slouches at his
desk, and other numerous little acts that
show respect for others, especially the
elderly, speak volumes about that student.
A firm foundation
also shows up in the way a student “filters”
the plethora of cultural messages. Is there
evidence of growing biblical-based
discernment, or does the student generally
accept almost every attractive, popular
theme at face value? Legalistic rejection is
not biblical discernment any more than is a
wide-eyed, “I wanna be cool” attitude.
Biblical discernment takes a lot of study,
time, and a willingness to stand alone at
times. “Wise as serpents, innocent as doves”
sums it up quite well.
A student’s
appearance billboards both his respect for
others and his family’s training in
discernment. Even in the secular world,
appearance is recognized as the
message-sending device it is. Dress should
not be the means to determine success, but
it is a lie to tell children that it doesn’t
matter at all. Even young children
understand the difference “dressing up”
makes in how they are to regard an activity.
All little girls want to look pretty at a
wedding, and all young boys want to wear
their team uniform with pride. A student who
supposedly doesn’t care too much about his
appearance actually cares too much for
himself and not enough for those who have to
see him. The attitude profoundly affects his
teachability.
A firm foundation
provides a student with a solid rock work
ethic, i.e. standards of doing a job well.
This goes beyond just being honest and not
cheating on the test. Doing their work “as
unto the Lord” practically means they don’t
have a “is this going to be on the test”
mentality toward the acquisition and value
of knowledge. Most often the students with a
strong work ethic, who sweat bullets for
every “B” they get, will fair far better in
the adult world than those gifted students
who breezily accept their “A’s.
Finally, parents
will improve their student’s opportunity to
gain much from a Christian education by
ensuring that they as parents understand,
value and teach the purpose for education.
It is not enough to send the kids and pay
the tuition – the parents must be able to
articulate reasons they are doing this and
help their children understand as well.
Otherwise, it will only be one more program
dad and mom sign their kids up for, like T
ball or piano lessons. Children value what
their parents value.
How firm is the
foundation at Salem Lutheran School? It’s
about 152 years old. There are evidences of
many, many deeply sunk pylons; may God be
pleased to allow us all to build upon them
well!
What do we Mean
by Christian Education?
Education, by its very nature, must address
the great questions of life. Who am I? Why
am I here? How must I live? Every school
must teach on the foundation of some kind of
world-view. That world-view may be boldly
stated, or it may be implied, but is always
present.
At Salem Lutheran
School our foundational world-view is the
unchangeable Word of God – the Bible.
Because God created the world and everything
in it, all creation is subject to Him.
Because God revealed Himself in His
creation, in the Bible, and in His Son,
Jesus Christ, we may confidently teach all
subjects in the light of His Lordship. This,
in turn, affects more than mere academics.
We strive to practice biblical living and
teaching everywhere, not only in our
curriculum, but by our example as faculty
and staff.
We are absolutely
committed to the central principles of the
Christian faith and to the evangelical
principles of the Lutheran Church–Missouri
Synod. (The Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod,
is a movement associated with other
Christians worldwide; committed to loving
people as Jesus loved, serving the world as
Jesus served, and proclaiming the grace of
God so that people are blessed in their
daily living.) Our faculty members are
primarily educated and trained in Lutheran
Universities across the United States. Our
student body consists of 14 Christian
denominations that represent 50
congregations spanning eight school
districts. Those students who do come from
unchurched families consequently are
educated in a Christian culture dominated by
the authority of the Word of God. As we seek
to build Christian unity between families of
the school, we also pray that Salem Lutheran
School will never drift from stressing the
importance of a consistent and personal
adherence to our Lord Jesus Christ.